Before you start reading this article, I feel it is important that I make every reader understand that this article is not written to judge, condemn or to crucify anyone. Personally, I recognize the fact that I'm not perfect just like no one is, and so am using this medium to call on everyone to please join me in my thoughts and on this walk, such that can make life easier for us and generations after us. And please permit some of my harsh words used here. Thank you.
"LET HIM (MALE OR FEMALE) THAT HAS EARS HEAR THIS"
"The air currents of life jolt us out of line and try to keep us from achieving our goals. Unexpected weather can change our direction and strategy. We must adjust our thinking continually so we can live right." - John C. Maxwell
While some ladies now strongly believe that showing off their boobs and butts are the new ways to get a man attracted to them, others now also believe strongly that giving a man good sex or getting pregnant for him would make him stay with them for a blissful relationship or even marriage.
WOMAN, putting your beauty, big boobs and fat butts on public display will only but attract and get you a boyfriend but never a husband. Good sex or early taking inn for him might make him stay but for a while, but still cannot keep him with you for something meaningful if he doesn't want to. All those are temporary things that will soon fade away and lose taste of value. But there is something you can offer a man that will not only get him attracted to you, but also make him stay glued to you as long as you do not change...CHARACTER.
I thank God for Pastor Bimbo Odukoya of blessed memory who said, "beauty may attract a man to you, but only CHARACTER will KEEP him with you."
WOMAN, it will profit you with greater joy and happiness both now and in the nearest future, to train and work on yourself to produce more of good character that will not only attract but keep, encourage and bless a man and his soul, than you are presently working on your beauty and other physical qualities for mere attraction. Marrying a woman without character for me, is like an everyday party man (faaji okunrin) who deliberately decided to go to stay in the wilderness for years, when he finds nothing attractive, fun or worthy to keep him there, he will surely consider every other available options or means to stay alive and encouraged within the first few days, weeks or months.
A very ugly woman (please permit me) with a good and responsible character, is far better than a very beautiful woman without character. As a matter of fact, a beautiful woman without character is like tea without sugar. So, work more on the values you can possess to affect and change people & the world with. Don't let the trying times change you for anything. Don't sell your pride for anything, be yourself, get closer (personal) with God and be the blessing needed for your time.
A very ugly woman (please permit me) with a good and responsible character, is far better than a very beautiful woman without character. As a matter of fact, a beautiful woman without character is like tea without sugar. So, work more on the values you can possess to affect and change people & the world with. Don't let the trying times change you for anything. Don't sell your pride for anything, be yourself, get closer (personal) with God and be the blessing needed for your time.
PARENTS, the new generation of women we are breeding today are fast becoming so corrupt in manners, they are fast losing moral values & standard for Godly living, especially the young ones. Parents, have you observed?
Parents, you better wake up fast from your slumber and do something urgently. So many student ladies on campuses are no longer there on educational purposes but to club all day & night, parading themselves in nakedness without shame, prostituting both inside and outside campuses for money and other material needs. There is no fear of God anymore. Something is wrong somewhere. Maybe for their lack of knowledge, for their lack of understanding of being able to take to teachings and instructions, or just because no one is telling them at all or telling them enough.
Parents, please play your role well. The truth is, if you as parents refuse to teach your children and prepare them through God to always stand against temptation and challenges in life, then experience in life will help you teach them a lesson and might even teach them in a such a way that they will always stand against you in life. Let your children be proud of having you as a parent.
Parents, you better wake up fast from your slumber and do something urgently. So many student ladies on campuses are no longer there on educational purposes but to club all day & night, parading themselves in nakedness without shame, prostituting both inside and outside campuses for money and other material needs. There is no fear of God anymore. Something is wrong somewhere. Maybe for their lack of knowledge, for their lack of understanding of being able to take to teachings and instructions, or just because no one is telling them at all or telling them enough.
Parents, please play your role well. The truth is, if you as parents refuse to teach your children and prepare them through God to always stand against temptation and challenges in life, then experience in life will help you teach them a lesson and might even teach them in a such a way that they will always stand against you in life. Let your children be proud of having you as a parent.
And unfortunately, we have some unreasonable, stupid and heartless fathers, who for their constant and uncontrollable desire for the sex that will destroy them, patronizes this girls both at school and other public places all in the name of being their Sugar Daddies.
To such FATHERS, sir, would you also pray that your other colleagues and or other partners in crime would do the same very abominable acts with your own daughter(s)?
There is no two ways about it sir, because the Bible made it clear to me that whatsoever a man sows, that he shall also reap. Chose your seeds and wait for your harvest.
To such FATHERS, sir, would you also pray that your other colleagues and or other partners in crime would do the same very abominable acts with your own daughter(s)?
There is no two ways about it sir, because the Bible made it clear to me that whatsoever a man sows, that he shall also reap. Chose your seeds and wait for your harvest.
Prostitution is now the order of the day, internet has taken over and is presently ruling so many people's lives. In the heart of many, Facebook, WhatsApp, Twitter, Instagram and other social media platforms has now replaced the Bible, the manual which makes the very good & greatest product, MAN. Women are no longer afraid to show their nakedness in public, neither do they have shame trading their bodies for money.
Young girls now completely goes naked on social media platforms all in the name of Displayed Pictures, Profile Picture and all, losing values. Rubbish!
And am not ending this without mentioning the act of some shameless mothers, who encourages their daughters to engage in prostitution all in the name of "we are poor, we don't have anyone to help us" or for any other reason(s). MOTHERS, if you suffer hard now to train up your daughter in good morals and values, won't you stand a better chance of swimming in the wealth of your hard labour tomorrow?
MOTHERS, will God actually be proud of you for making you a guardian over that child or those children by the time you are dead and gone?
Young girls now completely goes naked on social media platforms all in the name of Displayed Pictures, Profile Picture and all, losing values. Rubbish!
And am not ending this without mentioning the act of some shameless mothers, who encourages their daughters to engage in prostitution all in the name of "we are poor, we don't have anyone to help us" or for any other reason(s). MOTHERS, if you suffer hard now to train up your daughter in good morals and values, won't you stand a better chance of swimming in the wealth of your hard labour tomorrow?
MOTHERS, will God actually be proud of you for making you a guardian over that child or those children by the time you are dead and gone?
Please where on earth are the Proverbs 31 women?
If you are a woman, be it young or old and you are reading this article, what kind of life style are you living today? What kind of future are you building for yourself or your children? Are you leaving to please God who gives life and everything for free, or man who gives little and takes away everything from you?
What values or legacy are you going to leave behind for your children tomorrow?
If God comes now to judge everyone, will He be proud of you haven made you a woman or man?
What values or legacy are you going to leave behind for your children tomorrow?
If God comes now to judge everyone, will He be proud of you haven made you a woman or man?
And for every true BELIEVERS of the gospel, that's including me Sylvester Edobor, who sees or who may see this new destructive trends happening all around in the lives of their friends, families or loved ones without at least making an effort to correct it in them, will God actually be proud of us being believers? Who and what are we even believing in?
Or are we even the ones Now encouraging the unbelievers to do things that are against Godly principles?
Don't let the devil rule your time under your watch, let the God in you turn things around. You are the light of the world, the mouthpiece of God so let the world hear about Jesus from your mouth. Don't just be a bench warmer in Church, get involved in preaching about the God that you serve. It is not just limited to your pastors alone, God is expecting you and I to preach the gospel daily, everyone of us. Don't let's get too busy or carried away with it by other things and then neglecting our primary assignment on earth.
Help someone set a standard and to live a worthy life of honour and joy. Be the reason someone would want to know God, tell that man or woman who God is and how much they are so precious to God.
Don't let anybody go the destructive direction with you in their life.
Even when they won't listen, just do your best, and God will be proud of you.
Or are we even the ones Now encouraging the unbelievers to do things that are against Godly principles?
Don't let the devil rule your time under your watch, let the God in you turn things around. You are the light of the world, the mouthpiece of God so let the world hear about Jesus from your mouth. Don't just be a bench warmer in Church, get involved in preaching about the God that you serve. It is not just limited to your pastors alone, God is expecting you and I to preach the gospel daily, everyone of us. Don't let's get too busy or carried away with it by other things and then neglecting our primary assignment on earth.
Help someone set a standard and to live a worthy life of honour and joy. Be the reason someone would want to know God, tell that man or woman who God is and how much they are so precious to God.
Don't let anybody go the destructive direction with you in their life.
Even when they won't listen, just do your best, and God will be proud of you.
I have concretely concluded in my heart, that if our lives as believers cannot touch other people's lives, or change lives for God as God is expecting it to, then we have absolutely no reason at all being called believers. Let your life affect other people positively.
And as I end this article, please permit me to also end with this beautiful submissions by John C. Maxwell and my pastor & mentor, Pastor Taiwo Odukoya.
•"People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." J.C.M
•"The truth is, in every generation, God constantly looks out for people who will release themselves, their homes or businesses a channel's of blessings to humanity. It is impossible, therefore, not to be blessed when you are in the habit of touching the heart of God by being a blessing to others or meeting their needs." P.T.O
Ladies and gentlemen, please let's make a difference in the life of someone today. It will only cost you a few seconds or minutes to share this with someone, but it will cost the devil so much, eternity for your few seconds or minutes of sharing this article to change someone's life positively forever.
May God help everyone of us to do that which He has called us to do here on earth in Jesus name.
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