FACING THE DIFFICULT TRUTH

It hurts me when I see nude pictures of girls and women in the name of creative shots, be it of pregnant women or girls.  Let me start with the women. If you must let us know you are pregnant, do you take nude pics? My question is, where is your husband? Most times the men too support their wives to do such things just to post on social media and get likes. Can I tell you what you don't know? You just sold your pride for some cheap social media LIKES that will do them no good. Now that we have seen everything that was meant for your eyes only, what respect have you earned from it? Westerners decive you to think if you cover the nipples, then it's no longer a nude picture... you must be so foolish to belive that if you eat a plate of food, but leaves the meat untouched, then you have not eaten at all. You think the pride of a woman is the private part only? Nah! Your whole body is your privacy, and if you decide to show it to the world in the name of social media madness, then you've lost your pride as a woman or girl.

If after going nude for the world to see so you can get some miserable LIKES then I will suggest you just go naked all the days of your life cos there is nothing to hide anymore. That means the essence of wearing clothes have been defeated. Don't say "they can see but can't touch" that's one of the most foolish statements I always heard girls say. These days we don't need to touch anymore, all we need is to see and your pride as a woman is gone. Grow up and cut yourself away from this insane acts. There is nothing modern about your nude pics displayed everywhere for some Likes on social media. Don't say this guy is old school, Nah! I am not. I probably might even know more of the western life than you do. I love pictures and social media platform is great cos I use it alot, but the truth must be told when things start getting out of hand. My name is Sly Ifeoluwa Edobor. I am open to your criticism and insult... infact I am already insulting myself for posting this cos it's in some ways non of my business but I have sisters and friends and fans who will want to read and give it a second thought.

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God bless you

.....a joyful heart brings love to all season!

Woman, your beauty is sweet, but a beautiful face without a happy, smiling, cheerful and joyful character is disastrous!

No man wants to marry sadness for a wife. Your outside expression reflect what your inner man is built or made of. Your strong and scary face will only but drive people away from reaching you, even suitors. Every responsible man wants to marry a woman who can cheer him up when he's down and the smiles on a woman's face can made her husband's day without any interruption.

Woman, you have the gift to make your man happy, stop carrying a strong face everywhere, learn to always smile even when situations gets so bad. Your smile can heal a wounded soul. And your own man might even be watching.

I don’t know who it is yet, but I know who it is not!

As a lady you have been faced with that difficult choice of “who is he?”, I mean for us that rely on God we find it easy to know, but sometimes, it doesn’t come as soon as we expect, trust the heart, it starts looking around and sometimes loves the ones that are to be platonic. Well, am here again to write about me.

So this period I have had people coming with the “God told me it is you” gist, I mean seriously, these guys are cool but I just don’t see them that way even after I prayed. I know God does not cause confusion so I tell them the truth “God did not tell me it’s you”.

Hey ladies I know this feeling, a guy or guys you dated and broke up with years ago or even the ones you refused to date calls you up and tells you they are getting married or you find out they are married and you start feeling bad cause you are not even sure of a man yet. Been there, felt that! But the thing I always tell my self is, this is a proof he wasn’t mine and that I made the right decision.

I do not know who it is yet, I mean, I am ready to love him, in fact I already love him but I do not know him, I already know I am the best part of his life but I do not know him, I already know we will make the best couple and family to the Glory of God but I do not know him yet. I know he loves and respect me while I submit to him although I don’t know him yet. I know he is very successful because I have been praying for him since I was a teenager and my mother has too. But I do not know him yet. When I meet him I will sure know him and he will know me too, and we will just make it work and be the great and happy family that we are.

How will I know him? Erm I have prayed for him and about him a lot, I know I will just know him and he will know me, I know that no matter how much I fight the feeling I have for him it will not go away, I may not love him at first sight but as I get to know him I will love him deeper and deeper every tomorrow and he would also. I know he will be very sure he is perfect for me as I will be sure I am perfect for him. God will take me to where he can find me, he will find me and I will know him.

I may not know him yet, but I know who it is not, it’s not him if he has other women in his life for whatever reason(s) and feels ok with it and even tells you hoping you are cool with him doing it, he may suddenly wake up and find out he has been acting bad but he is still not the one for you. He thinks you are not as beautiful as some other lady out there but believes he can still be with you, he is still not the one because you are beautiful and amazing the way you are. He thinks he is the one to make mistakes, while you are there to clean his mess, he makes mistakes because he is a man and you clean it up and put him in the right track as a woman, OMG! He is so not the one.  Seriously it’s easier to figure out who it is not. God will not give you what you can’t cope with, you don’t have to date him to know you can’t cope with him. No matter how perfect he is you will just know he is not perfect for you but maybe perfect for someone else.