Saturday, October 31, 2015

YOUR FAITH WORKS WONDERS

Being confident of this very thing, that Ye which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ: Philippians 1v6.

I prophesy to you today, there shall be no abandoned project in your life, in Jesus name!
Your relationship, your marriage and the works of your hands shall flourish in Jesus name!

Good morning my Beloved.
Enjoy the weekend

LIGHT A FIRE ON THE INSIDE

If you want to know where your relationship/ marriage will be in 5 yrs, listen to what you talk about most now. "Your tongue is a rudder" James 3:4.
So now, Light a fire on the inside.

You have the seed of Almighty God. Don't allow something small to keep you away from God's best for your life or marriage
When the doubts about your marital life start to creep in, take a moment to pray & not faint.

A WORD FOR YOU:
•The truth about sex, don't fall for the misconception. Sex isn't for fun, it's a gift in marriage.

YOUR FAITH WORKS

Gilgal means the reproach of Egypt is rolled away/off. (Joshua 5:9).
Today, every reproach in your life is hereby rolled away.

Every curses of limitations, marital delay, backwardness, stagnation, & shame over your life now is rolled away.

Good morning my Beloved.

You & I will not end this year in Coffin! And so shall it be in the mighty name of Jesus!

EGO

One requirement needed to destroy any relationship or marriage is EGO.
Do you want to be the bigger person? Then skip the E & let it GO.
Forget about trying to get even with your mate. Instead focus on loving like Christ.

You'll experience success in your relationship/ marriage if you both begin with submitting to God.

Thank you for sticking around.
I Love You

TRUST GOD

Do you think he broke your heart?
Do you think she broke your heart?

You've given so much for love but didn't work out? And you're so sure your lack of knowledge, discipline or bad attitude didn't lead them out of your life?
Then I've got a word for U:

If God can remove someone you never dreamed of losing, He can replace them with someone you never dreamed of having.
God has something better than what you had.

A WORD FOR YOU:
•Never get so busy making a living, that you forget to enjoy the person God has placed in your life.

MARRIAGE OIL

When was the last time you checked "THE OIL" in your marriage! It needs adequately maintained & cared for even MORE than a car in order to last forever!

Selfish people will struggle to succeed in marriage, because marriage requires sharing but selfish people always refuses to share.
Put your OIL checked, maintained and cared for, so your marriage do not run out of OIL.

How was your day my beloved? Mine was great.
Thank you for
for for staying tuned always.
I Love You

QUESTION OF THE DAY

We often look for things in others that will complement us in relationships; those things that makes a person an asset & not a liability to us.

Question, without bragging, what are you bringing to the table that makes it really hard for the right person to turn you down?

What makes you Mr. or Miss Right?

Tough one I see. Maybe this is a question to ponder in one's "Quite Time"

Wednesday, October 28, 2015

A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP

A happy relationship doesn't need a couple to have oodles of money, an ideal house, flawless kids, ultimate job, or a posh car. It just needs perfect commitment and unconditional love, trust, strong faith, forgiveness, respect and mutual understanding between each other.

A WORD FOR THE DAY:
•Don't waste words on people who deserves your silence. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all.

REMAIN YOU

I wanna take this opportunity to applaud all the real men out there who never deny and abandon their kids, who hustle hard every day for the better life of their kids and family, who never stop taking care of their kids no matter how things didn’t work out between them and the mother to their kids, who are so proud and in love with their kids, and who respect the mothers to their kids for the wonderful work they do. You are indeed great heroes and real parents. You really know that a child’s future is worth every sacrifice. Big up to you all and keep the spirit.
Namaste
You'll know when a man is trying to TALK GAME to you because he won't TALK GOD with U!
If he'll stay with you in the spirit, TRY HIM! If he tries to lure you into the flesh, DENY HIM!
You've waited too long for foolishness, insincerity & lust to miss the Lord's blessing He has exclusively for you!
You're doing great! Just beyond your wilderness is your promised land!
See it by faith! God is still faithful!
Glory!!!!

LUST

If you think you can have an affair & not face any consequences, you are being severely fooled!
It will sting you & burn you longer than you think!
The moment you entertain lust OUTSIDE of your marriage is the moment you open the door to toxin IN your life!

Shut them down before they take over.
»TONIGHT'S TOPIC:
•Is it right for a lady to ask a guy out for a date/relationship?
Please explain reason(s) for your response.

Thank you

A WORD

SIS: Good men do exist & it's best to stop trying to put every man in the same category, that's a sure way to never connect with a "GOOD MAN".
BRO: A good woman will come into your life & make you wonder what you ever did to be so blessed. She will make you want 2 be a better man.
Who said you both don't deserve better? I bet it was someone who doesn't have better themselves. Let no one abuse you mentally.

KNOW YOUR WORTH

Lady- There's never a need for you to chase after a man...Men are hunters by nature...if he really wants you, he will pursue you on his own.
Real men pursue, Know Your Worth.
Mister- Many of you won't be ready for Marriage until you begin to walk in your Calling & Purpose. In order to truly lead a Woman you must first be submissive to God & His purpose for your life.
Seek His will & the rest will surely follow...

LET THE FEAR OF GOD RULE YOUR MIND FOR YOUR OWN PROGRESS

So you think you'll get a God-fearing man for marriage while you're busy messing up with another woman's sweetheart? Only by GRACE you'll escape it. Let this man enjoy His wife if you wish to enjoy your own husband too.
Bros: Making her your executive househelp to qualify her for a ring is practically rubbish & nonsense. Think twice because you're playing with hell. A smart Delilah will do it & show you her real self after wedding....
Make una fear God oooooo

INTERCOURSE

Courtship is Only for those who plan to Marry...
If "He" or "She" isn't discussing and/or making plans to Marry you, but is constantly pressuring you to have Sex, you're PROBABLY in a Relationship with the Wrong Person...
When INTERCOURSE occurs outside God's purpose, it becomes a total heart failure when there's BREAK UP because the SOULS ARE TIED from Internal Course.
Abstain Till Marriage
NoMoreWastedTime
KeepItMoving

WOMAN, BE WISE

SINGLE LADIES: A Lady's mind can be fragile & what you hear affects you big time including the lies he feeds you with all the time.
Some always think they can change men by being his sex slave or executive househelp.

Don't start a journey that has no end. Don't fuss over an uninterested guy, keep moving.
You indirectly tell people how to treat you. If you portray a good self esteem, nobody can tear it down since they didn't build it.

SHINE YOUR PHYSICAL & SPIRITUAL EYE

SINGLE MEN: It doesn't make sense for you to be praying for a RUTH & entertaining a JAZEBEL
Dude, there are beautiful, sexy, smart, intelligent girls everywhere, but a good wife is from the Lord.
The woman you decide to marry will either destroy you or take you to greater Heights
It's still your choice to pick, however if you pick the wrong person....you are to be blamed.
SHINE YOUR PHYSICAL & SPIRITUAL EYE

OVERCOME THE HURT

Most of the time when a good relationship ends, its not the goodbyes that hurt a lot, but the good memories shared with that person, the empty promises and lies they made to you, their true ugly colors they show at last that you didn't know for so long, and the many questions to answer from the people who knew you and them as a couple. Yeah, they really hurt a lot.
But if you ever get in such a situation, pray to God to lessen the pain, to nurse your wounds, to make you strong, to restore your peace and happiness, and to commit your heart in the hands of a new & better person. God is the only best healer, planner and provider of everything in our lives. Nothing is impossible to Him.

JUST A WORD FOR YOU

Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.

The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart.
So be careful with your words.

BE ENCOURAGED

Don’t let a bad break up, a divorce, a betrayal or a bad childhood cause you to settle where you are. Move forward and God will pay you back. Move forward and you’ll come into a new beginning. Nothing that has happened to you is a surprise to God. Stay blessed!
Jesus loves you. And I love you too.

LET'S FACE IT - Concluding Part

Don’t keep them around with false hope that with time you will adjust a little bit for the betterment of the relationship. Don’t love them out of pity please. Just tell it to them straight in their face at the start that you don’t love them and they find a way out before they deeply fall in love with you.
Don’t revenge on an innocent soul just because you have also ever been hurt so badly in the past. Have a merciful heart. If you can’t then find someone else to play with who entertains such dirty games.
I love you all

A WORD FOR TONIGHT:
One lie is all it takes for someone to lose their faith in you. The best you can do is always be upfront, always be real and always tell the truth.
MAKE, don't BREAK people please.

LET'S FACE IT - Three

If you well know it in your heart that you don’t love someone; maybe they aren’t your type or class, they are from a different tribe that you or your family loathe, they are of a different religion you don’t want, they're from a poor background or family you can’t bear, or they are not much educated to the standard you want, then don’t waste their time by lying to them how you love them just because you want to get financial help from them or because you want to get in their pants.

TODAY'S QUOTE:
It's rare to meet someone with a mind just as beautiful as their face.

LET'S FACE IT - Two

Then a day comes and they decide to change either because of a little misunderstanding that can be solved, a rumor that they heard which has no proof, or because they found someone new who seems to have it all. They forget everything they passed through with them, the good love and happy moments, and the future plans they had set together. They leave them with tears, pain and many questions to answer from people in their lives who knew them as their lover. It really hurts a lot and it’s unfair.
If you don't love someone, it's better you tell it to them right away than keeping them around and use them for your own benefit.

.....To be continued

LET'S FACE IT - One

I think some people are naturally born heartless! Honestly, why would a person enter someone else’s life and make them catch feelings for them, make them believe that they are different from the rest, and that they are to stay with them forever, then they develop love for them, they trust them with their fragile hearts, they be so happy and proud of them, they introduce them to their friends and family members, they open doors that no one has ever opened in their lives, they rely and count on them, they bear all their weaknesses, they lose their friends because they want to keep them, they get abused and called ugly names, they face every storm with them, they sacrifice everything of theirs for them, they do things that they have never done for anyone else, and lastly but not the least they give them their precious bodies.
Then.........
......To be continued

STRAIGHT TALK

Hello Lady, if a man discusses his erection with you or trying to make out with you but you're not interested, don't ever be found alone with him. An erect organ has no conscience.
Hello Dude, if sexual performance of a sister is your first discussion point instead of her spiritual performance, it can be assumed U are a predator.

QUESTION OF THE DAY:
•If you wrote a story about your life, what would the title be?

DON'T HIDE YOUR LOVE

If you really love someone never stop showing them how much you love them and how much they mean to you because if you stop, one day they might leave your life and you might not get that chance again. So, keep spreading the love, make those calls, send those lovely messages, deliver those surprises, spend time with them, create good memories together and make them happy.

But, don't trade your self worth & dignity and don't sell your self respect foranything. Be the difference, stand for what is right and don't compromise.

NATURAL FEELINGS

When your partner is far away from you, one mistake that ladies make in a relationship is trying hard to fight the feeling of attachment. Don't see yourself as being clingy or needy if you miss your man. On the contrary, feel good about your relationship, & be happy about the fact that the love between you both is still thriving.
Missing your partner is a completely natural & lovely thing.

And always remember, a man who wants the best for you, is the best for you.

THERE'S NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

There’s no relationship on earth that is all perfect. Every relationship has its own problems, ups and downs. Today you can all be happy, laughing, and praising each other and tomorrow something you didn’t see coming happens and you fight, abuse and hate each other. Yeah, such things are inevitable. But what matters most when such things happen, is how you deal with your issues as a couple in a mature way and still come out and say “I love you” to each other in the end.
So, before you always think of dumping your partner because of a misunderstanding or disagreement you have with them, always think twice, act mature, put your pride aside and fix your issues well as a couple if you still have feelings for each other.

LOVE

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Loving people can be very simple, but getting loved in return can be a great issue.
The above words are true & interesting, but even as interesting as they may appear, the honest truth about it is, you cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. So don’t waste your time on anything else.

A WORD FOR TODAY:
•Be cautious of people who say they want you, but don't even want themselves.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

NOT ALL RELATIONSHIPS LAST


Not everyone who comes into our life is meant to stay. So stop holding on to people who clearly don't want to be with you.
Never get too attached to anyone unless they also feel the same towards you, because one sided expectations can mentally destroy you.

A WORD FOR THE SINGLE WOMAN:
Ladies, if your primary objective is to be sexy, then you will only attract men whose primary objectives is to have sex.

TAKE IT SLOW

Don't think Performing a wife duty when you are not, will automatically persuade him to put the ring on your finger! That's faulty thinking and could lead you into a big emotional problem....
He doesn't needs a lifetime to decides if you are worth the ring or not.

WORDS FOR TONIGHT:
•Never beg for a relationship. Be brave to accept the one who really wants to be with you. And reject the one who just pretends to be with you.
•Don't push away the people who truly care about you, because one day, you will push them away, and they won't come back.

JUST A WORD

It's better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that requires you to sacrifice your self-respect. Don't go that extra mile for someone who isn't even worth the run.

Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

HEARTBREAK

Whenever we are disappointed or heartbroken, we always put all the blame on love and say it hurts. But truth be said, love doesn't hurt. Its the wrong people we meet, love, trust and rely on that hurt and disappoint us.
We are so quick in trusting and counting on people without taking enough time to know their intentions towards us. We over unmask our fragile hearts to merciless people and we end up being heartbroken.
We need to take enough time to know people, we need not to trust so much, we need not to love with only our hearts but also with all our senses, we need to be very careful with our hearts, lives and precious bodies so as to not live with regrets and pain for the rest of our lives.

LOVE


Love doesn't walk away, people do.
Most relationships fail because you're too busy pointing out each other's mistakes & not enough time enjoying each other's company.

CHOOSE TO BE A LISTENING EAR

I used to be someone that, before you say one word, I already have a ready made & well cooked response for you! Hmmm, thank God for Jesus in my life. Lolzzzzz
I realized where two masters rule, chaos & anarchy will be produced. Let one person talk & the other listen attentively, because effective communication with reasonable feedbacks is vital to the success of your relationship or union.
CHOOSE TO BE A LISTENING EAR

WAIT UPON GOD

One day you are gonna meet someone who will make you forget all the pain you have been through in your old relationships, who will make you happy, who will care about you and love you genuinely just the way you are, who will be happy and proud to have you, who will be ready for a serious relationship with you, who will bear and deal with all your weaknesses and imperfections, who will be with fear of hurting and losing you, who won’t use your past against you, and who will be everything to you.
I know this may sound like a lie or dream to you, but believe me someday you will find that special person who will be only for you. God already has that person for you in stock. But He’s just waiting for the perfect time as He is preparing you. Be ready to embrace them any time.

But, watch your demands and attitude towards then, so you do not send your happiness packing with ignorance.

BE ENCOURAGED


Only God knows what you are going through & what you are feeling inside you. He knows how many times your heart has been broken. He knows all your fears that are unspoken. God knows all the tears you've withheld & are falling inside you. God knows all the words & all the actions of all the people that have hurt you. No matter how deep the hurts, God will take your pain away. But if He chooses not to, He will give you strength to endure.
Believe!