I don’t know who it is yet, but I know who it is not!
As a lady you have been faced with that difficult choice of
“who is he?”, I mean for us that rely on God we find it easy to know, but
sometimes, it doesn’t come as soon as we expect, trust the heart, it starts
looking around and sometimes loves the ones that are to be platonic. Well, am
here again to write about me.
So this period I have had people coming with the “God told
me it is you” gist, I mean seriously, these guys are cool but I just don’t see
them that way even after I prayed. I know God does not cause confusion so I
tell them the truth “God did not tell me it’s you”.
Hey ladies I know this feeling, a guy or guys you dated and
broke up with years ago or even the ones you refused to date calls you up and
tells you they are getting married or you find out they are married and you
start feeling bad cause you are not even sure of a man yet. Been there, felt
that! But the thing I always tell my self is, this is a proof he wasn’t mine
and that I made the right decision.
I do not know who it is yet, I mean, I am ready to love him,
in fact I already love him but I do not know him, I already know I am the best
part of his life but I do not know him, I already know we will make the best
couple and family to the Glory of God but I do not know him yet. I know he
loves and respect me while I submit to him although I don’t know him yet. I
know he is very successful because I have been praying for him since I was a
teenager and my mother has too. But I do not know him yet. When I meet him I
will sure know him and he will know me too, and we will just make it work and
be the great and happy family that we are.
How will I know him? Erm I have prayed for him and about him
a lot, I know I will just know him and he will know me, I know that no matter
how much I fight the feeling I have for him it will not go away, I may not love
him at first sight but as I get to know him I will love him deeper and deeper
every tomorrow and he would also. I know he will be very sure he is perfect for
me as I will be sure I am perfect for him. God will take me to where he can
find me, he will find me and I will know him.
I may not know him yet, but I know who it is not, it’s not
him if he has other women in his life for whatever reason(s) and feels ok with
it and even tells you hoping you are cool with him doing it, he may suddenly
wake up and find out he has been acting bad but he is still not the one for
you. He thinks you are not as beautiful as some other lady out there but
believes he can still be with you, he is still not the one because you are
beautiful and amazing the way you are. He thinks he is the one to make
mistakes, while you are there to clean his mess, he makes mistakes because he
is a man and you clean it up and put him in the right track as a woman, OMG! He
is so not the one. Seriously it’s easier
to figure out who it is not. God will not give you what you can’t cope with,
you don’t have to date him to know you can’t cope with him. No matter how
perfect he is you will just know he is not perfect for you but maybe perfect
for someone else.
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